Teenagers can be serious jerks. You don’t need research by the Pew Internet and American Life Project on cyberbullying to know that. It’s interesting to note however, that at the dawn of the 21st century, teenagers have effectively transferred their jerk skills from corporeal to virtual, launching torments once reserved for the lunchroom, school hallway and bus stop into cyberspace.
Granted, a bus stop beat down is recognizably and immediately more damaging than an acronym-rich text threat. And the research also showed that 67 percent of teens surveyed said they’re more likely to be bullied or harassed offline. But there’s a gap in information here, one that arguably encourages the casual reader to summarize something along the lines of, “Hey, this cyberbullying isn’t nearly as bad as we expected. No big deal, really.â€ÂÂÂ
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Let’s face it. Once a social issue makes it as a plot point on “Law & Order,†we better start getting concerned. Now, if you’re like me, all the “L&O†franchises start to run together. But I do recall an episode where this popular high school girl got killed by this fat chick’s brother because she took cell phone pictures of the fat chick naked in the locker room and then e-mailed it to everyone or posted it on the InterWeb or whatever.
Fat Chick ended up shooting and killing Dead Popular Chick’s BFF for hanging a pig fetus on her locker. Or something like that. I don’t really remember. But it doesn’t matter. What I mean to say is this: Where is the Pew research on the connection between cyberbullying and real world harassment? Because it happens, and not just on “Law & Order.â€ÂÂÂ
Maybe grown-ups want to believe cyberbullying ain’t so bad because, to varying degrees, many adults indulge in it as well. Internet anonymity grants the freedom to trash someone’s chat room opinion on politics without the fear of facing them two cubicles over the next morning. Even in the office, it allows the meek and miserable to aggressively address co-workers via cap-infused e-mails lousy with exclamation points (albeit creating permanent records they may live to regret)
Lest we continue to downplay the implications of Internet bullying for kids or adults, consider Kathy Sierra. Earlier this year, the software programmer who ran the site Creating Passionate Users closed her blog after suffering an onslaught of abuse  everything thing from childish insults to threats of sexual and physical violence. This harassment was not limited to Sierra’s blog, but infected all areas of cyberspace with items such as a manipulated photo of Sierra with her throat cut as well as the posting of her home address.